- $ = Protect the money
- S = Build in support
- M = Avoid gambling locations
- T = Keep busy
1 - $ = PROTECT THE MONEY
- Have paycheck direct deposited into safe account
- Carry minimum amount of money
- Open a joint bank account (2 signatures required to withdraw money)
- “Make finances transparent” with a friend, family member or partner
- Partner monitors finances regularly
- Credit review to detect secret credit cards
- Agree on amount of daily expense money
- Keep a minimum amount in a bank account
- Close all sources of money (extra credit cards, cash stores)
- Pay bills first and have a friend, family member or partner assist
- Buy gas/food cards
- Get barred from loans or pawnshop
2 - S = BUILD IN SUPPORT
- Go to self help groups – religious support (i.e. pastor)
- Admit gambling to someone close – mend bridges
- Outpatient counselling - rehab program
- Obtain financial counselling if needed
- Private counselling for personal issues
3 - M = AVOID GAMBLING VENUES
- Take different route to avoid gambling triggers
- Avoid the gambling locations (i.e. pub) or bring someone with you if going
- Have yourself barred from gambling locations
- Bring minimum money on your everyday
- Have alternate plan if upset and tempted to gamble
4 - T= FILL FREE TIME
- Pinpoint time of frequent ambling (weekly agenda) and fill that time slot with another activity/person
- Return to old hobbies or pastimes or create new ones
- Exercise – Rest – Nutrition
- Volunteer work
ADDICTIONAL RECOVERY IDEAS
- Toonie with photo of children, family, significant other
- Photo of partner/kids in wallet/purse
- Keep a happy face calendar
- Call a friend daily to report no gambling
- Get a pet (if empty home triggers gambling)
- Identify amount of $ that trigger urges to play
- Save for a dream trip/purchase
- Pick up pay on Monday instead of Friday
- Buy gas or food card
- Locked box for tips – cab drivers
- Collect tips with a friend (waitresses)
- Have money withdrawn from account automatically when paying bills. Also, have bills paid the same time paycheck is deposited into bank account
- When paying a bill with cash - call first
- Bring a book to read if bored
- Change to evening clothes after supper
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